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We are surrounded by online images of people and celebrities that show us a certain body type. And this certain body type and body image are what we are led to believe is the “perfect look”. Through extensive social media accounts and online news, we then look at ourselves and compare ourselves to others. This can sometimes make us feel good, but more often than not it harms our mental health. The good news is that this topic is becoming more openly talked about and positive body image is a phrase you may have heard.

What Is Body Image?

Body image is the way we think and feel about ourselves and how we believe others see us. There might be times when you look at yourselves and like certain parts of your body and times when you struggle with how you look. This isn’t just referring to weight – body image covers lots of areas such as:

  • Struggling to love yourself and your body
  • Comparing yourself to others
  • Hiding your body because you feel ashamed
  • Feeling like you are not attractive
  • Scars, birthmarks etc
  • Struggling to find clothes that fit your body shape

Our body image is often influenced by what is going on around us, especially by social media, characters on TV shows or adverts about “improving your body”. Comments from others can heavily influence how we feel about ourselves.

A list of tips isn’t going to instantly make you feel more positive about your body image but they will help to start to look at yourselves more healthily. The more you practice these new thought patterns, the better you will feel about how you look and the body you have.

Here are our 6 top tips for creating a positive body image:

1 Be Kind To Yourself

This sounds easier said than done, but be kind to yourself and your body. Try not to compare yourself to images you see online and in magazines, these have been heavily edited to show “the perfect body image” which is unrealistic. 

Think about what your body has done for you and been through, maybe birthed your children, been through surgery or survived an accident. And although these things may have caused changes or scars to your body, be kind to yourself and remember that your body has been through a lot.

2 Be Around Positive People

As mentioned before, negative body image can come from comments from others around us. It is easier to feel better about yourself if you are surrounded by people who are supportive. They can recognise the importance of liking yourself and who you are and can help you feel that way about yourself. We need to have positive role models in our lives and it might help you to note down positive things people say about you to look at another time.

3 Tidy Up Your Apps

Think of what social media accounts you follow. Do these people promote a positive body image and make you feel good about yourself? Or do they make you compare your body to theirs and feel down? If they don’t have a positive effect on you, then unfollow them and replace them with someone who promotes a positive body image. If the app, in general, makes you feel stressed then take a break or remove yourself entirely. The signs social media is affecting your mental health.

4 Make A List

Along with noting down positive comments that others say to you, also try to keep a list of what you like about yourself. To start, note things that are not related to weight or the way you look. As you read it often and start to become more aware, slowly add to it as you notice new things you like about yourself and start to include things about the way you look.

5 The Voices In Our Head

When you look at yourself in the mirror, don’t talk to yourself about the parts of your body that you don’t like, or the areas you are uncomfortable with. Shut out the negative voices in your mind that tell you you aren’t good enough. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones by using affirmations that will help change the way you think over time. When we think positively about ourselves, we carry ourselves with confidence and self-acceptance.

6 Talk To Someone

It is really important to talk to people about the way you are thinking or feeling. Find someone who is supportive and trustworthy and will listen to your feelings and understand. It could be someone at home, your parents or a sibling or other family member. It may even be someone at school or work who you can trust or even a therapist like we have here at Oxford CBT.

If your negative thoughts are starting to affect your mental health or cause you significant stress it is vital that you talk to a professional.


What Are the 3 Components to Positive Body Image?

There are 3 main components and these are weight, shape/size and appearance. There is no right or wrong to these and having positive body image is to be happy in your own body and be confident.

Who Can Help us Have Positive Body Image?

Our family and friends and the culture we surround ourselves with will help us to create a positive body image and can all influence a person’s body image. This can be in a positive way but also a negative way. They can encourage people, even from a young age, to believe that there is an ideal body but this image is often an unnatural one.

What Are The Signs of Poor Body Image?

A person who is struggling with their body image may become obsessed with the way they look and trying to change it. They may develop strange eating habits and drastically change the way they dress/look/present themselves to others. Their priorities may be different to what they were before.

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